The Dos and Don'ts of Funeral Fashion: A How-To Guide

Follow these rules of simple funeral etiquette

As someone who has been to more than their fair share of funerals, I can wholeheartedly say that one of the most difficult things about attending a funeral is knowing what to wear. There's a fine line between showing respect for the deceased and their family and friends, and wanting to blend in and not stand out.

Here are a few Dos and Don'ts when it comes to funeral fashion:

Do dress appropriately.

This means no mini skirts, tank tops, or other revealing clothing. You want to look respectful and somber, not like you're going out for a night on the town.

Do make sure your clothing is clean and pressed.

You don't want to look like you just rolled out of bed, even if you did.

Do wear colors other than black.

While black is the traditional color to wear to a funeral, it's not required. If you're not comfortable in black, any other dark color will do.

Do attend the visitation before the funeral, if possible.

This will give you a chance to see the deceased and pay your respects before the service.

Don't wear perfume or cologne.

Many people are allergic to strong scents, and you don't want to be the person responsible for making them sick.

Don't wear sunglasses inside.

Not only is it impolite, but it also makes it difficult to see.

Don't wear a hat.

It's traditionally seen as disrespectful to wear a hat during a funeral service.

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Hopefully these tips will help you decide what to wear the next time you attend a funeral.

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